How to Tell Your Hairdresser What You Want When You Are Not Sure

Most people sit in the chair, get asked what they want, and freeze. They know they want something different but they cannot describe it. Or they have a picture on their phone but worry it will not work on their hair.

This happens every day in our salon and it is completely normal. Here is how to make it easier.

Bring Pictures. Even If You Think They Are Silly.

A picture tells us more than ten minutes of description. Save a few from Instagram or Pinterest. They do not need to be perfect or even realistic. They show us the direction you are thinking, the vibe, the general territory.

We are not going to judge your choices. We might say "that exact colour would need three sessions on your hair" or "that cut works best on thicker hair, but here is a version that would suit yours." That is the whole point of the conversation.

Tell Us What You Do Not Want

Sometimes it is easier to say what you hate than what you love. "I do not want it to look blocky." "I do not want to see my roots after two weeks." "I do not want anything I have to style every morning." That narrows it down fast.

Be Honest About Your Routine

If you wash your hair twice a week and never use a hair dryer, tell us. If you straighten it every morning, tell us. If you are not going to use the products we recommend, tell us. We will give you a style and colour that works with how you actually live, not how you think you should live.

Say If You Are Nervous

Loads of our clients are nervous. Some have had bad experiences at other salons. Some have not changed their hair in years. Some just find the whole thing stressful. Tell us and we will slow down, explain more, and check in with you throughout.

We had a client recently who told us she had huge anxiety about hairdressers. By the end of the appointment she was already rebooking. That is what happens when you feel properly listened to.

The Consultation Is Free

If you genuinely have no idea what you want, book a consultation. Come in, sit down, have a chat. We will look at your hair, your face shape, your lifestyle, and suggest some options. No commitment, no charge. You leave with a plan and book when you are ready.

01582 730381 or book online.